It may not be easy but I've seen very tricky issues resolved using the methods I advocate...
Looking after yourself
My practice is different from most as I can and do involve therapists in my work. Separation and Divorce is one of the most emotionally disturbing changes that a person can face. These negative emotions impact on how children are affected and how the divorced couple relate and co-parent into the future.
If I work with your therapist there is the potential to bring together the legal and emotional aspects of divorce.