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Mediation and separating and separated couples
I am recognised as an accredited family mediator with the Family Mediation Council. I am accredited for all issues mediation, which means I can help you with facilitating arrangements for the children and finances. I am an experienced Hybrid mediator.
Anyone involved in family proceedings is aware that the use of mediation provides a very real and often successful alternative to going to court to resolve their dispute. It is seen as a really cost effective way to sort things out for separating families.
It’s a process to help resolve financial and children arrangements.
I give lots of legal information to help you make decisions. This will fall short of legal advice for which I always recommend that you get.
I meet with you each individually, in the first instance, so we can get to know each other and see if we all feel mediation is appropriate. This meeting is agreed to be confidential.
You and your partner will then meet with me and outline the issues you need to resolve. If you have children then I will focus on them first and check to see how arrangements are working out. We might also talk about how to provide your financial information, fix the date or dates of future meetings and/or raise anything which is of immediate concern to either or both of you.
Further meetings will be scheduled at which we may need to consider options for the children. You may also exchange financial information and consider options to sort things out. I may suggest other help, such as financial advice or support for your children. Between meetings you may wish to meet with your lawyer for advice.
Once you have proposals you both find acceptable l will prepare a summary of these together with a summary of the financial information which will be sent to each of you to discuss with your lawyers. After you have both received legal advice those lawyers will convert the summary into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary implementation.
A combination of the civil and family models of mediation. It is particularly suited to high conflict or complex cases, as participants can involve their lawyers directly in the process giving them additional support, as well as direct and timely access to legal advice.
All manner of family issues, including financial matters (including those with an international element), children matters, inheritance issues and wider family disputes that may involve other family members such as parents or grandparents.
Hybrid mediation is particularly useful in the following situations:-
People can discuss things with the mediator in a way they might not feel comfortable doing if the other person were also present. People can explore options with the mediator without commitment or raising expectations.
This is specific to each person and situation, but normally includes the reasoning behind options for settlement or the people’s hopes and concerns. Or it might be that they are in the midst of negotiation and will tell the mediator something they don't, for the moment, want passed on. This helps the mediator to bring about a settlement.
Hybrid mediation is very cost effective. The costs of the mediator in hybrid mediation are generally met equally by the participants, but can be whatever proportions they decide.
Each person will be responsible for their own lawyer’s costs. The lawyers’ direct involvement in the process reduces the need for people to liaise with their lawyers between meetings. It reduces the need for inter-solicitor correspondence (expensive letter writing). Outcome documents can be produced immediately.
The Pre-action Protocol requires parties who intends to issue family proceedings to attend a meeting to learn about family mediation and other Dispute Resolution processes, unless certain exemptions apply. This is known as a MIAM's meeting (Mediation, Information and Assessment Meeting). Often when couples hear about mediation, Arbitration, Private FDR's and Early Neutral Evaluation and Collaborative Practice they use one or a mixture of these as a mechanism to bring about agreement rather than court. In the alternative, I can complete the relevant court forms noting that you have attended a MIAM's meeting with me or that I have assessed mediation as not being appropriate.